uncle Tom, we'd be happy to try something we were going to do a week or so ago with another newcomer to Elements. He didn't accept our offer, but maybe you'd like to.
If you pick one image and explain to us what you're starting with and what kind of an outcome you'd like to get, between us geniuses

we can probably walk you through step by step. After you do one start to finish, you'd begin to get a feel for how to edit photos using Elements.
Or, if you'd rather, you can select one of the other pieces of software that's been suggested. It's up to you, but we'd be happy to help you get the feel for working this program. Once you make it over the first hurdle, you might find it will do a nice job for you.