Hello All
I guess I was like many of you before PCa -- work hard, try to save
money, worry about money. About a year ago I was "downsized" and my
family urged me to take the opportunity and retire (I was 62 at the
time). I decided to continue working on a part-time basis in order to
have enuf -- you guessed it -- money.
Then along comes PCa and I find my perspective is changing. Although I
am recovering nicely from RRP on Oct 27, 2003, I realize that my life
expectancy may not be as long as I used to think it was. Or, I may
not be healthy enuf (due to cancer or any of a multitude of other
physical ailments that can strike a person) to do things that I want
to do. So it is probably time to start doing some of those things
now, while I can, rather than keep trying to save up for them by
working more. I'll still work part-time, but only if the assignments
are interesting or I am bored during the long winter months (I am a
summer person).
Giving up worrying about money is tough -- especially when one has
spent a lifetime doing so. I'm a real good worrier about finances.
But in a strange way, having PCa has given me "permission" to focus
more on the here and now and enjoy the moment, rather than concentrate
on potential problems down the road. I feel I've saved all my life --
now is the time to enjoy some of that.
Just my view.
Bruce
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