nwbluepenguin

I'm very sorry you have such deep emotional pain from what happened to you at
your father's hand. Your're right, I don't have that type of pain.

However, physical pain so intense the only solution a person see's is to commit
suicide, is pain you apparently don't understand. Many in this group have
physical pain so intense life seems senseless to endure.

master juba

Is that you Ginnie?

--
Juba

w4phm

Thanks for Sharing

candaceberntsen

Well, I can tell you that I know the pain of MY father molesting me as
a child and **** and I am a miserable SKINNY person (I weigh 112 lbs
and I am 5 foot 6).

I can tell you that the physical pain is even worse than the
emotional, and that it's the COMBO that really ****s.

If you see no pleasure here, it's because we are in severe chronic
physical pain and there's not going to be any pleasure to be found in
that, no indeed!

Maybe you stumbled across the wrong kind of pain group but I don't
think anyone is going to lose any sleep whatsoever if you "writher" in
your disgust of them, whatever that means!

If your self-esteem is that low then there are support groups for
that.

This was not even a post worthy of responding to, I know...but I just
couldn't resist, for the sheer entertainment value of it, I'll admit.

I needed a laugh tonight!!

gene myers

My pain hurts me worse than your pain hurts you.

nwbluepenguin

I'm sure it does.

jay hammond

Maybe you should try loosing weight and seeking some psychological
help for YOUR pain instead of crying and accussing others of being
fakes,... or maybe YOU are simply faking for attention, and yes, you've
proven yourself to be a "bitch", uncaring about the feelings of others
too, so I personally have no sympathy for you,... If you cannot start to
heal yourself how can you expect others to be able to help you,... if
you really want help, but it sounds more like you want folks to coddle
you and damn anyone elses feelings. Grow up cow,... try alt.i'm a whiny
bitch.black hole,... and fall in. You probably wouldn't know pleasure,
OR pain even if either of them smacked you in the face. You're probably
one of them devoutly religious persons,... or a pain doctor.

....I just had to rant. I feel better now though, so thanks "bitch".

old goat

Dear Christina:
To be sure you are having pain, however don't be so fast to judge a lot of
people who you don't know, or know what they have been through. I can
almost assure you that there are people here who have been molested or
abused and also have the misfortune of being in severe physical pain as
well. If you are suffering from a double whammy, some mental help could
help reduce the physical symptoms or vice-versa.
If you don't have that misfortune, you don't know pain and you have a
great deal of nerve. I hope you get some help.
No one is here for pleasure. We all wish we were posting to different
groups. If you're here for pleasure, move on. You disgust me. If you're
here for help,support or advice, you still may be in the wrong place for
your problem. Go where you can vent to people with similar experiences for
help,support and advice. This is not the place for your posting. get help.
---O.G.

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bookbabe

{{{Christina}}}}

I hope that you get the help that you need, so that you can learn
healthy ways to deal with your pain, anger and self-loathing. I don't
know that a.s.c-p is the place for that- you'd be far better off
finding a professional who has experience dealing with child abuse
victims in a controlled environment.

If you stick around here, you can, of course, continue to write the
kinds of posts that will elicit responses guaranteed to intensify your
self-hatred, but I hope you make a healthier choice for yourself.

You deserve better.

Michele

jawags

Christina,
I'm sorry for your emotional pain.
The only thing I can do for you is pray, and I will.
Please get some help.