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15th July 22:23
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Marriage Vows (depression anxiety aneurysm)
I wanted to
1. Introduce myself
2. Tell you about fiance
3. Tell you what I have done
4. Tell you what she has done
5. Tell you about responsibility
1. My name is Christopher Anders Range. I am 36, 5'6", 175pds., brown
hair and brown eyes. I am disabled due to a congenital defect. I
have Hydrocephalus, Epilepsy, Depression and a ventricular brain
aneurysm. I have had six brain surgeries. It took me four**** years,
instead of the customary twelve. I take medication for seizures,
depression, impulsivity and sleep
2. My fiance's name is none of your business. She is 34, 5'3",
173pds., brown hair, brown eyes. She has Asthma, Bi-Polar
Disorder(Manic Depression), Dyslexia, Glaucoma, Hypoglycemia,
Hydrocephalus, Panic Disorder, PTSD. She is in recovery, from ****
and ******, at the hands of her step-father. She is seven months
pregnant, with our first baby. She takes medication for anxiety,
Panic Disorder and sleep, at this time because, the Bi-Polar med is
secreted through the breastmilk so, she can't take that med. She may
have to have brain surgery for her Hydrocephalus, within 24hrs. of the
birth.
3. I have thrown her, yelled at her, lost my temper with her. I have
left her once already. I have attempted to go to 'domestic violence'
classes but, they want $260. I am SSDI(Supplemental Security
Disability Income) and, only make $789/mth.
4. She has mood swings coming from three different directions: Child
Abuse, PTSD and Bi-Polar Disorder which, have a tendency, to get out
of hand.
5. We have f****ven eachother for, what eachother has done, countless
times. It may be the general opinion, that, we should, stay away,
from eachother.
A generic standard for marriage vows, goes, as follows:
(name), Do you take this woman/man to be your lawfully wedded
wife/husband, to love and cherish, for better or worse, for richer or
poorer, in sickness and health, so long as you both shall live.
Even though, we have not married yet, we live by this, on a daily
basis.
Take a look at the 'Non-Violence' wheel, in domestic violence. There
are several key things to improve on.
1. Negotiation and Fairness
2. Trust and Support
3. Honesty and Accountability
4. Respect
5. Non-Threatening Behavior
6. Economic Partnership
Everyone take a look this page:
http://www.newdircenter.com/wheel_non-violence.htm
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