mercy

I cannot print out, copy or do anything with those router headers. It won't
let me do it. I am trying to bend over backwards here to help you guys
resolve this but I am just beside myself right now. I am crying and
practically hysterical. Plus, Ed is getting ready to go hunting and I have
to make food for him and his crew and I am just about out of my mind here.
I am ready to check into a psych hospital for the week. Please stop this
awful bickering and if somebody wants to call me, or me to call them, send
me your phone number or I will send you mind and read the headers to you. I
don't want to be dramatic here but I am near hysteria. My husband is going
to come home and find me crying and be more upset cuz I am so upset. He
hates this group as it is and doesn't want me to be here but I need to be
here cuz this is where I get most of my support. I am just beside myself.
I can't take much more. Peachy is trying to help me. She is not trying to
take sides. I just cannot stand any more of this smashing each other when
we are all so sick. Please, just stop it. I don't care, call me if you
want or give me your number and I will call you. Whatever it takes to stop
this.

Nettie

eq

Nettie. Please stop. You don't have to prove anything to me or anyone
else. I already proved what I could and people will either believe or not.
The headers that I posted should've been ample proof.

But this is NOT your responsibility, NOT your problem and those who plopped
it on your shoulders
should definitely stop that right now.

This isn't even your fight. I feel bad that you are upset trying to produce
something in a neutral fashion and having trouble. That you attempted to
stay neutral speaks volumes already.

Stop, please. Breathe. Drink some water. You just had surgery, for crying
out loud (and that doesn't even cover the problem with the tape). Grab some
kleenex and rest. You've done enough. You just had surgery... take care of
you.

Mary

peachy

I see from previous threads that you got it sorted. Ok now do as you been
told and take it easy!

I doubt that anyone except me understands just how much all this has
effected you, nor how much you have suffered because they haven't seen the
big picture or know exactly what has been happening.

Quite simply, in the past, you have been manipulated and deceived by certain
people who seem to take great delight in making others suffer by causing
arguments. I think that I know you well enough to know that you don't play
mind games, that any mistakes you've made have been genuine ones and that
your biggest faults are that you are far too trusting and sensitive.

I know that some have accused you of "flipping" or going "crazy" in the past
but who wouldn't in your cir***stances, being accused of things that you
didn't do. I know that a lot of the time you post during the night when you
can't sleep and the meds aren't working and because of that, sometimes your
brain isn't working properly and do genuinely misunderstand things or make
mistakes. I just wish that others would give people the benefit of the
doubt more because I doubt that there's one of us here who could honestly
say that the same hasn't happened to us!

As I've said before, lets just all be a little more lenient towards each
other and clarify before we jump in feet first with fists at the ready
because ultimately, who understands just what FM does to people emotionally
and physically better than those who are suffering from it!

I also know that not only have you stuck it out because you need support
yourself but because you care about others and want to support them too
because you know just how important support is. No one could ever accuse
you of not being supportive towards others, cos you are one of the most
supportive people in this group, no one could dispute that!

Now as I said, bugger off and get some rest girl!

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{big hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

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peachy

Unfortunately, Nettie has been accused of so much in the past that she is
desperate to prove that she is not responsible for this and why she has
posted some of the stuff she has lately. People have been playing games with
her and for a couple of weeks now, it's been building up and building up and
she is really upset about the whole thing.

She hasn't been well for weeks, what with reducing the pred, both her and Ed
having colds, problems flaring, the trouble with her armpit and her recent
op and is really stressed out. Who wouldn't be with all that going on and
her vulnerability has been taken advantage of!

Nettie really appreciates your support Mary and your understanding of why
she has been so upset lately, as do I:-) Both of us also hope that now
certain things are coming to light, that you'll also begin to realise the
cause of some of the previous arguments and that Nettie has never ever meant
to do harm to anyone but that there was a certain amount of manipulation
under the guise of "friendship" by certain people.

I hope that you understand what I mean by that and also that the past won't
be dragged up again and that we can all get on with the real reason that we
are here, to support each other and others coming here looking for help and
advice.


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