sad

After our second IVF, my wife got pregnant. Today, the doctors did a
scan and found that the baby is not growing. Instead of 5 weeks old,
the baby is only 4.3 weeks old size. The doctors are advising an
abortion, but we decided not to do. At the same time, we stopped all
the medicine.

Any advise?

melanie

My advise is to not post your questions to this group.

sad

Which group then I should be replying to? I'm little confused about how
these forums are moderated.

peggy

Once you have a confirmed pregnancy, you should move to
alt.infertility.pregnancy to discuss pregnancy related things. Due to the
fact that many women in this group will never achieve a pregnancy, pregnancy
related talk is painful to many of the women here. The people in
alt.infertility.pregnancy also know more about the things you have questions
about.

alt.infertility.primary is for people that have no living biological
children to discuss emotional things related to not having a child.

Peggy in NC

sad

That helped. Thanks.

peggy

You can also find the FAQ at
http://www.fertilityplus.org/faq/primaryfaq.html

jade jago

I wish you luck. I hope that the girls at alt.infertility.pregnancy can help
you!
My heart bleeds for your situation. I can only imagine how painful it must
be.
We cant help you here. We don't have experience with that sort of problem.
Hugs,
Jade.

sad

It was my mistake to post at the wrong forum. Thank you for pointing me
to the right direction.

highest point

I am hoping this message goes to your personally as I see you have been
advised to switch groups. I have gone through the same thing and would
welcome your questions.

Lisa