Arnold kim 2007-09-21 05:21:04
Hi there. I found out about this group via Google Groups, and I must say
that it is an absolute godsend. I’m glad to know that other people have
some of the same issues I do.
I have a question, though- I’ve been experiencing the fairly common “gay
spike” over the past several years, and I read an article on the OCD Online
website about the subject and it answered a lot of my questions, except two:
Is it common to find it physically difficult to make yourself imagine you’re
kissing someone of the opposite s**, and is it common for your “heart” or
“gut” to accept some kind of rationalization for otherwise apparently
heterosexual behavior (e.g. “sublimating” homosexual desires) and not accept
Erik 2007-09-21 05:21:14
Er, mind sharing the link. There’s no relation between
homosexuality and OCD that I’m aware of.
Arnold kim 2007-09-21 05:21:15
Dude, that’s the _last_ thing I need to hear right now. Thanks a lot.
Anyway, check this newsgroup at groups.google.com for the term “homosexual”.
Go to the “Lookup Library” section of “Ask the experts” at
Erik 2007-09-21 05:21:17
Thanks for sharing the links. I understand what you’re
getting at now. I don’t have anything to share from my own
experience, so I’ll let somebody else respond. Good luck.
Ann r quay 2007-09-22 18:08:43
Do you have a ‘what if I’m gay?’ fear/obsession?
If so, your two questions appear like an attempt to try to figure out
‘for sure’ about your sexuality.
What kind of treatment are you getting?
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