Dechiera 2010-06-29 04:46:13
That is a pretty interesting concept. What exactly is the status of the
Is there some kind of legal issue floating around, out there, that I’m
Please do tell ….
Maybe, this is what all this nonsense of your is on the newsgroup??? Could
there be some benefits to this exalted position that I have let slip through
As the people on the east coast look on, to your display of familiar
affections, are they starting to questions “your” motives as to the need to
keep the estrangement of our family of origin units separated.
Sweet, sweet ……, perhaps you too will reach an age, where all you want
is tranquillity vs this constant need for chaos. Perhaps you too will
reach an age, where what happened to you as a youth is not as important as
what is happening in the present.
Perhaps you too will reach an age, where you really don’t get a care to what
people think of you. Perhaps you too will reach an age, where you can go
to bed at night knowing you lived up to your own expectation of humanity,
acting in a kind gentle way, even in the face of adversity.
Are you noticing a theme here … reaching an age, I’m equating this with
maturity. Sometimes people get stuck as things resurface from their past
and bring on oppressive feelings. But
I’m gathering from our relatives that the consensus is “the past is the
past, leave it there” having themselves reached an age to just not want the
And you know what, that is all right in my book.
You’ve got a couple of heavy duty transitional periods coming up in your
life. One a physiological one of menopause, and the other emotional, when
you child leaves the nest. My advise is to get yourself as calm, cool and
collected as you can. Journalling in a notebook vs. newsgroups rages, might
be a better format for writing your fears, projections, feelings as they
don’t come back to haunt you hence no backlash or misinterpretations.