redsonja

"To Look" != "To Be".


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"Heithrun the goat on the hall that stands; | ^ /o\
eateth off Laerath's limbs; | |/\v/---
The crock she fills with clearest mead, | b ^ | |
will that drink not ever be drained." - Grimnismal | | / \ V

meltdarok

<<<<<<snippitydodah<<<<<<<

I'm sorry, but I can't wade through all this stuff, however; did you mention
that
men get a natural high from looking at a "beautiful" woman's face?

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meltdarok
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ishambat

I see. You mean, that there is a difference between being beautiful
and looking beautiful? I suppose there is. Which one do you support?

redsonja

Being. "Looking" is only a subset of that. They are not mutually
exclusive, but the "looking" part is somewhat culturally conditioned,
and only one part of the whole picture. I find people who can't get
past appearances to be shallow. They are not the sort of people I want
in my life, and I am DEFINITELY not the sort of person they want in
theirs.

--
"Heithrun the goat on the hall that stands; | ^ /o\
eateth off Laerath's limbs; | |/\v/---
The crock she fills with clearest mead, | b ^ | |
will that drink not ever be drained." - Grimnismal | | / \ V

mika93

There is no "politically correct" brand of feminism.

You remind me of several vegan/anarchist/green/other radical people I
know, who define themselves based on what they are against. They are
anti-industry, anti-carnivore, anti-government, anti-whatever. Which,
aside from being unhealthy, does not make sense because the world
isn't black and white. In other words, this "other" that is hated
does not accurately represent reality, it is a construct created in
order to have a clearly defined opponent to fight against.

Why take this negative and faulty approach to the world? Why not
focus on the positive, on the things you would like to manifest? Why
don't you write about all the positive manifestations of the reality
you desire? They do exist - you are just choosing to ignore them.

Are you a lover or a hater? It sounds very much to me that you'd like
to be a lover, or at least create an image that makes it seem like you
are a lover, but you are completely attached to your hate and your
fight. Hate attracts hate, as long as you stick with your current
attitude I doubt you will experience the world you are wishing for.